Just to repeat that I'm not a Christian (some mayn't have read my first posts).... thanks anyway (including Mooky).
Luckily I have a Plan B AND a Plan C .... so I'm sure one of them will come into fruitian ... that's the advantage of being flexible.
I love hearing about other people's weddings and renewals.
Did anybody have a disaster of a wedding day (in terms of details and things going wrong) ... but can laugh about it now and relish the knowledge that you married the right person, which is all that counts in the long run.