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   30/04/2008, 12:58
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I too have felt the PMT symptoms much more severely over the  last few months and last month the hot flushes started about a week before my period.  I'm only 42 for Gods sake and my mind still thinks I'm 25!!!!  I feel like an extra-terrestriel  and my poor husband and daughter are getting the brunt of my irritable moods and I'm losing the plot for the smallest thing.  It's awful!!! 

I am even planning my familys visits and invitations around the PMT time so people don't have to witness my head spinning around at 360°Woot! [:-))] Don't worry Pads, Jonz and Chateau Miaow - it'll be over by the 13thWink [;-)]

I went back on the evening primrose yesterday in the hope that it will do some good.  I think I'm going to sit down with my family and just explain what it is and that they should just ignore me or go and stay in a hotel for a week once a monthBig Smile [:D]

As for an antidote instead of chocolate and wine which apparently makes the syndrome even worseSad [:(] I went to see a silly film in the village last night called "Bienvenue chez les Ch'tis" and it made me laugh which was great relief and calorie free.

The most natural thing for it (if you don't want the HRT) is laughter and MFS (Mutual Female Sympathy)

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   30/04/2008, 13:17
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 Frenchie wrote:

Do ALL women experience this ??

Reading what you write ............................... I'm not in a hurry !!!!!  Blink [blink]Blink [blink]

No -  I wasn't aware of anything much,  my GP said I was peri menopausal at 43,  a few years ago I was tested and it was all over.....the worst bit was wondering (due to irregular periods) what I would do if I was pregnant when I was about 44 - 45.


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   30/04/2008, 21:51
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I'm peri-menopausal too (I'm 46) and can wake up absolutely fine one day and the next have no energy at all and feel grumpy with everyone. My worst problem is not being able to sleep  as that makes me irritable.  I'm avoiding HRT and going for supplements that contain SOY and plenty of B vitamins as that works for me.  I also take KALMS for a couple of weeks throughout the month... I find that mid cycle is my worst time when I seem to have terrible PMT!
The best way I get through all the horrible symptoms is to accept that if I'm feeling bad it is because of my hormones - not the other half, the kids, animals, house renovations, decorating, writers block etc etc!
 
My best advice would be to explain to everyone close to you how you feel and just let them know when you're having an off day so they leave you alone.  Accept that the way you feel is just your hormones going on the rampage and if you feel like having a day off then do... the work will still be there tomorrow!



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   02/05/2008, 11:07
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 writersblock wrote:

My best advice would be to explain to everyone close to you how you feel and just let them know when you're having an off day so they leave you alone.  Accept that the way you feel is just your hormones going on the rampage and if you feel like having a day off then do... the work will still be there tomorrow!

Which is fine if you don't have to hold down a senior managerial role, which is where I was at when it all started.  The day I nearly passed out in the office (only not doing so because I lay down until the faintness had gone away) I knew it was time to get my life back.  Fortunately, that morning (early) only the two mature female members of my staff were in, and they'd been there too, so no disastrous consequences, but just think what it would be like having to keep your head etc etc whilst in the middle of PMT.  Not funny.  So, no regrets on taking, as I said earlier, one of the better decisions I made at that time!

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   02/05/2008, 11:13
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I hope the situation has changed with male doctors in the UK to that expressed by my sister's GP some 15 years ago.

She visited him and said that she felt generally unwell. "What do you expect for a menopausal woman" was his reply.

Two days later she had a near fatal heart attack. Fortunately and with no thanks to him she is still alive today.







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   02/05/2008, 21:31
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Dear all... both Ladies and Gents... thank you so much for your comments and replies and for the pm's that I've also just downloaded.  I've been off line for a few days so these messages are a very nice surprise!  I will reply to all the pm's over the weekend, but just wanted to say thank you all very much!

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p.s. feeling much happier over the last few days too! Big Smile [:D]


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   03/05/2008, 17:01
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I found Evening Primrose helped a lot with PMT. The worst thing for me was that for the last 6-7 years I got a migraine every month about a week before my period was due. Luckily an understanding GP gave me an Immigran injection pen so I could treat myself as soon as the migraine struck. Thankfully they have disappeared since the menopause, although the hot flushes still occassionaly occur, how long do they take to disappear?

By the way, I think the PMT symptoms have transferred to OH - anyone heard whether this is possible?Whistles [Www]

 


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   15/05/2008, 21:30
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Oh dear, reading this has me thinking I must be perimenopausal.   Its difficult for me to tell though because a couple of years ago I had a gynae procedure which (fortunately) stopped the monthly cycle.   However, for the last 3 or 4 months I seem to be experiencing aching in joints such as knees, feet, hands and shoulders (does anyone else have this symptom?) and I think the night sweats have started - or is it just the warmer weather, I ask myself.   Forgetfulness and lack of concentration seems to be more noticeable.   As for lack of sleep, I've forgotten what a good 6 hours sleep is like - I am lucky to sleep for 2 hours a night.   Mood wise I haven't noticed much difference, although I always did have PMT which seemed to last for 3 weeks of every month - according to my OH!Wink [;-)]   Do these symptoms sound familiar or am I going nuts?

Maybe we should start a "female hormones" thread???


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   15/05/2008, 21:47
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Hi, aching joints, somedays total lack of concentration, hardly any sleep... sounds all normal to me at the moment!!!!

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