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06/05/2008, 13:16 powerdesal Joined on 07/01/2006 Fujeirah, U.A.E Posts 2,354 Re: Death.... then integration If I am SOOOOOOOOOO rich its extremely well hidden, even I cant find the dosh. Steve Fujeirah Emirate, U.A.E + 50 (in France) ...........................................................................    Report

06/05/2008, 19:55 Frenchie Joined on 31/05/2007 Niort, 2 Sèvres,79 Posts 4,929 Re: Death.... then integration  Ron Avery wrote: It does not sound like the France that I know.  Unless you know the bank clerk outside of the bank personally, IMHO it would be treated as the height of rudeness to exchange kisses in a formal business situation of clerk and client.  Who initiated this greeting by kissing?   I wonder what the French contributors think of this? I ve never seen that in my whole life...   ( I am french ) Love is fab , it's like a stab in the heart .    Report

06/05/2008, 20:00 Clair Joined on 23/08/2004 Forum Moderator based in the Lot (46) Posts 8,040 Re: Death.... then integration nor me...  Clair Real Virtual French Person    Report

06/05/2008, 20:10 Christine Animal Joined on 14/05/2005 Deux-Sèvres Posts 4,412 Re: Death.... then integration nor me.   animalaidsaintaubin/ New site Don't accept your dog's admiration as conclusive evidence that you are wonderful    Report

06/05/2008, 20:19 woolybanana'sbrother Joined on 18/01/2008 Posts 1,321 Re: Death.... then integration So, you have been missing out then, mesdames? Do not try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and annoys the pig.    Report

06/05/2008, 20:23 Clair Joined on 23/08/2004 Forum Moderator based in the Lot (46) Posts 8,040 Re: Death.... then integration If you'd met my directeur de banque, you'd be thankful..., but then again, I've heard about your strange tastes... Clair Real Virtual French Person    Report

06/05/2008, 20:30 sweet 17 Joined on 05/08/2006 charente maritime Posts 3,201 Re: Death.... then integration Wooly, I shan't believe you if you're trying to make out that they kiss you as well!    Report

06/05/2008, 22:06 J.R's gone native Joined on 16/07/2006 Picardie, Sussex Posts 2,127 Re: Death.... then integration Do you tutoyer or vousvoyer the bank staff and particularly the manager Powderesal? If it is toutoiment then perhaps, just perhaps a bisous would have been in order, although I would save it for social non-proffessional occasions especially with the manager. But if you must toutoi and bisous in the bank you are supposed to do it when entering, not be reminded when leaving A manque de respect one way or another! Its not easy for an etranger to avoid offending people here is it? Editted I still get tripped up by saying bonjour/soir etc more than once in a day, its not that I have forgotten seeing the person before that day (which is why they are so offended) just the habits of a (UK) lifetime where we say hello for the second occasion. My biggest faux pas is when I have finished working on the building  late as usual and pop in next door for a swift half just before they close, I often walk staright to the bar to order my drink when I have a proper "bloke thirst" but in my haste offend everyone there that I know including the owners by not doing theobligatory  introductions first.    Report

07/05/2008, 6:49 powerdesal Joined on 07/01/2006 Fujeirah, U.A.E Posts 2,354 Re: Death.... then integration JR, I have never used "tu" in respect of the any of the bank staff, I do not know them at that level and obviously they are not family. Please read my reply to Ron, the Manageress initiated the bisous when I entered the bank, having left her office to greet me when she saw me arrive, it was not me giving "offence". Perhaps I should have kept her at arms reach and lectured her on the innappropriate behaviour. I suspect that sort of action would have been more disrespectful. Similarly the young lady I referred to who is our "personal account manager" (or whatever the French term is for that function) greeted me with the relevant bisous, again initiated by her not me. She is the one who required the kiss on leaving, as I said in my first post. Perhaps our French forum members could advise me how to avoid being kissed by the French staff as it is obviously bad mannered of them and I would not want to give offence by turning away or holding them off at arms length. Steve Fujeirah Emirate, U.A.E + 50 (in France) ...........................................................................    Report

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