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   03/05/2008, 12:42
J.R's gone native is not online. Last active: 01/12/2008 13:17:20 J.R's gone native

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Saying grace (giving thanks at the table)
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It is not something that I do at home but whenever I am invited to eat with different nationalities/ cultures if they do, I like to also, it has always served me well in other countries.

I will be eating this Sunday, for the second time with a Catholic French family, last time I was not able to join in with their singing and making of the cross on the chest but said the only grace that I know in English, it seemed rather abrupt in comparison and didnt survive my translation very well.

So I would like to ask if anyone can give me a message of thanks (in French) that will carry some meaning. - Without singingSmile [:)]

Thank you in advance


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   03/05/2008, 12:46
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Have a look here: http://www.catholicdoors.com/prayers/french/fran028.htm
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   03/05/2008, 13:27
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Thank you Clair

I think that prayer 1 was the one they used and sang the chorus, unfortunately it only has the first few words.

I will probably use prayer 2  unless you know of another non catholic resource, as the mother is rather evangelical and may take my reciting of a catholic prayer to be a sign that I am ripe for conversionSmile [:)]

In prayer 3 there is an "ô", I have seen this before and not found it even in my largest dictionary, when I asked my ex teacher she wasnt aware of it and I thought pehaps I had imagined it!

Now its existance is confirmed what does it mean? - I assume that the circonflex signifies a letter omitted from the old french word.


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   03/05/2008, 13:55
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Here's another: http://tradition.free.fr/prieres.html#benedicites

and another
Seigneur, daigne bénir ce repas que nous allons prendre, ainsi que ceux qui l'ont préparé.
Donne du pain à ceux qui n'en ont pas, et aide-nous à partager le nôtre.
Amen.
Do not worry about the ô, it's simply there to emphasise the words that follow.

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   03/05/2008, 14:00
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Re: Saying grace (giving thanks at the table)
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A couple from my childhood:

We thank the Lord for what we've had

For a little more we would be glad

But since the game is very bad

We'll have to make do with what we've had.

 

(Sung)

Always eat when you are hungry

Always drink when you are dry

Always wash when you are dirty

Don't stop breathing or you'll die.

 


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   03/05/2008, 14:07
Ron Avery is not online. Last active: 02/12/2008 15:25:18 Ron Avery

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If you suddenly pipe up with an alternative grace after the host has finished don't you think that will seem extremely rude?  After all you are a guest.

Surely all you need to do is bow your head and say amen (its the same word in French) at the end and after the prayer make the sign of the cross, which is not for the exclusive use of Roman Catholics, you are allowed even if you are a proddyBlink [blink].


Why not post a sensible answer, people will appreciate it more


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   03/05/2008, 14:12
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This will depend so much on the OPs beliefs won't it ? I'm afraid I couldn't bring myself to make the sign of the cross - allowed to doesn't come into it.

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   03/05/2008, 14:19
Ron Avery is not online. Last active: 02/12/2008 15:25:18 Ron Avery

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Well as he said Grace last time Hoddy I am assuming he is a push baptist or something close to a Christian!!

Why not post a sensible answer, people will appreciate it more


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   03/05/2008, 16:17
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And of course, which sort of a Protestant you are, some would be mortified if you made the sign of the cross.
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